"Trusted" boyfriends send around pictures to their friends. Ex-boyfriends will sometimes seek revenge.
Sure, that can totally happen if you date or dated an asshole. But then the woman is giving those pictures to the boyfriend and it's no longer a case of theft. This is just a plain case of theft, not of a douche ex sharing his pictures with his bros.
A boyfriend or an ex distributing your photos is a good reason not to take them in the first place, in addition risks of theft and hacking.
There are humiliating pictures of JL on her knees with semen on her face and in her mouth. I think an average girl knows enough by the age of 20 that it's probably not a good idea to take something like that.
This, always.
Some people have no choice but to live in a bad neighborhood. If they live in a bad neighborhood then they probably can't afford to have a good alarm system. It's not their fault for living in a bad situation and having someone take advantage of it.
I started the sentence with "If they chose".
When you choose to do something, with other better options available, the consequences of your bad choice is your fault. Bad people exist, and there is nothing you can do about it except take precautions. If you choose to leave your iPhone on the bar while you go to the restroom, when you find it missing it is your fault. If you leave $100 bills on your passenger seat and you find that your car has been broken into, it's your fault. If you move into a bad neighborhood to save money, even though you could afford to live in a good neighborhood, the consequences of that are your fault.
JL took embarrassing photos of herself, despite the many risks. The humiliation she receives is her fault. She can't remove the bad people from the world. She can't remove the risks. But she could have easily avoided the situation by not taking the photos.