37 of our United States now have gay marriage or gay union laws, and I expect it will be all fifty within the 10 years, and the Federal Government will probably follow.
I figure, for secular purposes, I don't care who you marry. I mean, religion tells you one thing. I have my own beliefs on who you should marry and who you shouldn't marry, who you should schtupp, and who you shouldn't schtupp, and so-on. But it's not my business to tell other people who to marry or to schtupp. So as long as it's two consenting adults who aren't biologically related, well, for secular purposes, marry them and/or schtupp them if that's what trips your trigger. Just don't ask me to agree with it necessarily.
And I would rather that a gay man get with one as opposed to getting with different men at the bar each night and risk getting disease, and emotional damage, and so-on. So, if that counts for much...