Somebody can correct me if I'm wrong. In layman terms, a body in motion, in these cases spinning, tends to flatten them out. RE is not spinning fast enough to flatten it out, plus it's mass is too dens to be flattened.
FET the disc is not spinning from my understanding. So that's not the forces causing the earth to be flat.
Galaxies are spinning/spiraling, although are not a solid body but are, in fact, spherical towards the center. Galaxies are made up of billions of spherical celestial bodies.
Solar systems that have celestial spheres orbiting on a common plane millions of miles apart is not the same as a solid mass being flat or spherical.