This is the first step of modelling this with RE distances.
The three observers are at the points indicated by the green squares. Their lines of sight to the Moon (orange) are not to scale, the Moon would be far over to the left.
If the diameter of Earth is taken as 7926 miles, then the radius is (7926/2 =) 3959, and the length of chord C (the orange vertical) is 5598 miles, using the formula on this page ("So the length of the chord is: ")
https://www.ck12.org/trigonometry/length-of-a-chord/lesson/Length-of-a-Chord-TRIG/ If the length of this chord is 5598, and we take the distance from the 45N and 45S observers to be exactly 240k miles to the Moon, that gives us an isosceles triangle, or two right-angle triangles back-to-back, one with hypotenuse to 45N, one to 45S.
Let's solve for the angle at the Moon for the right-angles, and double it.
Right-triangle calculator;
http://www.cleavebooks.co.uk/scol/calrtri.htmSide a = half the length of the chord, so 5598/2 = 2799, and side c = 240,000. Angle A = 0.668 degrees, so the angle at the Moon made by taking the two lines of sight from 45N and 45S is 2 * 0.668 = 1.336 degrees.
This gives us the angle at the Moon made by taking the difference between lines of sight from 45N and 45S (indicated by two orange squares).
The chord length will not vary, as long as the observers are at 45N and 45S, they are on the side of the Earth facing the Moon, and we take the distance to the Moon as a fixed 240k miles (I'm excluding any allowance for Earth's axial tilt at present, and discounting any change in the 240k as they move nearer or further to the Moon along the line of latitude)
Tom, look at the above and tell me/us - do you agree? Y/N
Do you also agree that this is another way to calculate the angle that you were trying to calculate with your huge circle around the Moon, isn't it?