Can its evidence be objectively verified. You know, like talking to the person
Ah, yes, because conversations are an objective proof of things.
C'mon Gulliver, let's try to fix this embarrassing trend of yours. Let's play a fun game. Before you next post, take a deep breath, count to three, picture something unrelated in your mind, count to three again, breathe out, and then read what you said out loud. Only after you've done so and thought "yep, that's good to go", click "post".