you seem to be making the claim that constitutional monarchies are very democratic because they always have impotent executives
That is not what I'm saying at all. I'm saying that, all else being equal, a constitutional monarchy with a democratic culture tends to be more stable and more democratic than a system with an elected president and a democratic culture. I have also made the point that this is far less important than many other factors.
Remember, this conversation got started when I replied to someone who implied that a monarchy is necessarily undemocratic. I am only asserting that that position is absurd, nothing more.
Oh what a terrible thing it is for someone such as myself to walk through life so terribly misunderstood.
I thought this was obvious from the subtext but I was mocking the monarchy not because of any problem with that form of a government. I was mocking it because it makes me think that England is a land besot with wizards and knights who say "ni" and all manner of arthurian legend.
I was perfectly content to discuss England's dragon problem but you had to take a far more farcical turn, that a monarchy is more democratic than a democracy, which I was happy to oblige for a time. For a time I assume you were in on the joke but then I realized that you are in fact serious and were making an earnest effort to defend the Monarchy in the same way that a southerner in the 1800s might defend slavery.
I do not blame you. I blame myself. I have not had many serious conversations in this particular form and I don't know everyone's sense of humor or lack thereof.
Mea Culpa.